Chapter 1482 I'm Fine, Okay

"What? I'm a little scared?" Shen Long glanced at the stage, everyone was concentrating on practicing, and no one noticed them, so he asked, he knew what kind of person He Xiaoping's mother was, and he knew why He Xiaoping was this reaction.

"No." He Xiaoping showed a confused and tangled look. Regarding the relationship between her and her mother, she always felt that it was a little different from other families, but she couldn't tell what was different; I don't want to mention this, except for Shen Long, because from the first meeting until now, Shen Long has been helping her and has gained her trust long ago.

"Come on, let's go to the back and talk!" Shen Long took He Xiaoping and walked back a little further. This place is farther away from the stage. They must not be able to hear the dialogue between themselves and He Xiaoping, and they kept in the sight of others. This will give people a sense of security, but will not cause unnecessary trouble.

"Although I don't know the situation in your family." Actually, I know, "But judging from your expression, you should have encountered a problem. Can you talk to me? Sometimes, an outsider will help you analyze Analysis, you can see it more clearly."

He Xiaoping opened her mouth, but still didn't say anything, because she didn't know where to start, and she didn't know whether to tell Shen Long; Shen Long was not discouraged, he continued, "I'm a little older than you, I have a little more life experience than you, and I have seen many situations, since you don't want to talk about it, then I will try to guess."

"Back then, on the train you came to our regiment, I heard you talk about how you signed up to join the army. Generally speaking, if it's not suitable, it's fine for other people to go to the recruitment office three or five times, but you ran away Eleven, and according to what you said, there should be no family to accompany you? It feels as if you are eager to escape from that family."

This time He Xiaoping didn't speak, she lowered her head and silently thought about what happened back then, it seemed that it was indeed the case, she was very depressed in her stepfather's house, so when she saw the recruiting, she quickly seemed to grab the straw for life-saving.

"I can only say this in private. In fact, many people are not qualified parents. They don't like their children at all, or even though they like them, they don't know how to express them in an appropriate way." This kind of view may not be new in later generations, but it is a bit rebellious now. After all, China's tradition of emphasizing filial piety has lasted for thousands of years.

There was a worried look in He Xiaoping's eyes. She quickly looked around and was relieved when she found that no one noticed. If these words spread to the ears of outsiders, he would definitely be in trouble, right?

After panicking, He Xiaoping was able to think carefully about the meaning of Shen Long's words, and then thought about it. His words seemed to be reasonable. It was hard for her to say that her mother hurt her, but her mother wanted to protect such a family. The set of means that must be exercised because of the situation does make her feel uncomfortable.

She has always believed that her mother sacrificed herself for her daughter to have a superior living environment. Even when she beat and scolded herself, it was not to vent, but to hate why she could not integrate into this new family; It was this way of loving myself that hurt me, that's why I was worried when I received this letter, afraid to meet my mother.

"Then... what should I do?" Shen Long's words touched her heart, making her feel dependent on Shen Long, yes, who could I tell these things before? No matter who they talk to, they will probably just throw a word lightly, are there any parents who are not right in the world?

This issue is actually very complicated,

Even in the increasingly enlightened future generations, all we can do is to learn how to be good parents, right? And it might be better for He Xiaoping to be younger. Now that she has grown up, the most influential childhood has passed, and many things have begun to take shape.

Some people say that lucky people are healed by childhood all their lives, and unlucky people are healed their childhood all their lives; He Xiaoping has not healed the misfortune left by childhood in her whole life.

"How should I say it?" Shen Long raised his head and looked at the stage with empty eyes, "It would be really difficult to deal with this before liberation, because at that time, the whole family lived together, even if Once you get married and have children, you still have to be constantly influenced by your parents; but now, the lifestyle of this big family is gradually splitting up, and in the future more people will live alone, and occasionally go back to see their parents."

As Shen Long said, he turned his head and looked into He Xiaoping's eyes, "You have left Shanghai now, and you are in our regiment. It is foreseeable that you will also develop in the army for a long time in the future, and you will rarely have the opportunity to return to that family It's time to go." There are still a few years before the disbandment of the art troupe, and Shen Long is also confident that he and He Xiaoping will stay.

"In short, no matter what memories your original family brought you, you have gotten rid of them now! You have come out, you are no longer the little girl who longed to leave the family, you have found it again in the new environment. As long as you are stronger, it will be difficult for them to interfere with your life, a person's fate depends on himself after all." Shen Long encouraged this boy with an unfortunate childhood in a slow but firm tone. girl.

"In the past, you were afraid of making your family angry and not giving you food, but now there is no need for this. You have a salary to support yourself. Even if they don't care about you, you don't have to be afraid? Even...even if you occasionally go against your parents' wishes behavior, but as long as you can prove that what you did is right and you can live a better life, I think they will also feel gratified? So, the most important thing now is to make yourself happier."

When He Xiaoping heard these words, He Xiaoping couldn't help but shed tears, soaking her cheeks. No one had ever said such words to her before, and now she felt very warm after hearing them.

"Since you are not happy, when you see your mother, stop talking about family affairs and talk more about your affairs in the regiment. You have good sisters like Hao Shuwen and Xiao Suizi, and so many good colleagues. Talking about these things will naturally make you happier." Shen Long felt that he had said enough, "Okay, wipe away your tears, take a rest, and then continue rehearsing. If you have any questions, you can contact me at any time."

"En." He Xiaoping responded softly, sat here to rest for a while, wiped away her tears and returned to the stage.

"Yo, Xiaoping, why are you crying? Captain Liu scolded you? Don't take it to heart, he is doing it for your own good." Someone asked with concern.

They also felt that He Xiaoping was a little absent-minded in the rehearsal just now, and Shen Long has always been strict with the performance, so they all thought that He Xiaoping was being criticized.

He Xiaoping showed a relaxed smile she had never seen before, "It's okay, I'm fine."

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