Chapter 1048 Things Are Easier Now!
"No!"
"Absolutely not!"
When Ma Shijie heard Ma Baozhu talking about Ding Dawen, he shook his head without thinking. This matter was not just mentioned now, but two years ago. The attitude of his family, to be more precise, the attitude of his parents, was very clear that they did not agree with this matter.
"Little sister!"
"Ding Dawen is a good person, he is quite honest, but you have to make a living after you get married. No matter what, you have to make money to support your family, right?"
"Ding Dawen has been working outside for the past few years, and he has not been able to work for half a year in any job. How can he do that?"
"In a few years, when he is older, he will not be able to work even if he wants to."
"Ding Dawen's family conditions are indeed good, but Ding Dawen is not good at business, and your personality is almost the same as Ding Dawen's."
"If you two get together, how will you live? You can't make no money, can't you two work for the rest of your life?"
Ma Shijie didn't think Ding Dawen was a bad person, but he thought Ding Dawen couldn't make money to support his family. If Ma Baozhu married into the family, she might have to suffer. Ding Lihua was good at business, but Ding Lihua couldn't support Ding Dawen and Ma Baozhu for the rest of their lives.
When Ma Baozhu heard what Ma Shijie said, her eyes suddenly turned red.
"What's wrong with you? Why do you have to cry when talking about this?"
"But this matter is not negotiable!"
"It's no use crying!"
Ma Shijie gritted his teeth and refused to give in.
"How can you, as a big brother, talk like this?"
"Even if you disagree, there is no need to be like this!"
Luo Hongxia glared at Ma Shijie.
"Baozhu."
"What did you say just now? Why do I seem to hear you say that Ding Xiaoxiang wants to meet the two of us?"
"What is the relationship between Ding Xiaoxiang and Ding Dawen?"
"Oh, right!"
"Isn't there a man named Zhao Dahai in Langtou Village who is very good at fishing?"
"I heard that Zhao Dahai and a man named Ding Xiaoxiang are a couple."
"Could it be the Ding Xiaoxiang you are talking about?"
Luo Hongxia knew very well that Ma Shijie's family opposed Ding Dawen and Ma Baozhu, but just now when Ma Baozhu said that I was going to marry Dawen, she mentioned a person named Ding Xiaoxiang, but she had never mentioned this person before. This Ding Xiaoxiang and Ding Dawen have the same surname. The other is that everyone in the town now knows about Zhao Dahai and a man named Ding Xiaoxiang.
"Sister-in-law."
"Ding Xiaoxiang and Ding Dawen are cousins."
"Ding Dawen's father is Ding Lihua, Ding Lihua's elder brother is Ding Chongshan, and Ding Xiaoxiang is Ding Chongshan's daughter."
"The Ding Xiaoxiang I'm talking about is the Ding Xiaoxiang you're talking about, the Ding Xiaoxiang who is dating Zhao Dahai."
Ma Baozhu wiped her eyes and explained in detail the relationship between Ding Dawen and Ding Xiaoxiang.
"So what? What's the relationship?"
"Ding Xiaoxiang wants to see both of us, but this is absolutely impossible!"
Ma Shijie didn't give in at all.
"I said, why are you so stubborn?"
"I think there's no difference between you and Ding Dawen, and I thought you were blind to marry you?"
"Go away, don't join in the fun here, I have to protect you well, and talk about this matter properly."
Luo Hongxia was not polite at all, she directly reached out and patted Ma Shijie's shoulder, and waited for the door of the store.
Ma Shijie was a little depressed, but it might be him who couldn't keep his word at home, but Luo Hongxia, so he stood up and walked aside.
"Baozhu."
"What's going on?"
"You and Dawen are not new friends, and you know very well that your family has no attitude."
"If there is no special situation, they will definitely not agree."
"Ding Xiaoxiang is Ding Dawen's cousin, she may not be old or young, why is she here to deal with this matter?"
Luo Hongxia was different from Ma Shijie who was stubborn and directly opposed. She just heard clearly that Ding Xiaoxiang wanted to see herself and Ma Shijie. There was something wrong with this matter. There must be some reason, and she had to ask clearly.
Ma Baozhu told Luo Hongxia that Ding Dawen had not been working outside recently.
"Ding Dawen is now driving a large fishing boat for Zhao Dahai and Ding Xiaoxiang to transport fish."
"Ding Xiaoxiang asked about Ding Dawen and me these two days."
"Ding Dawen talked to Ding Xiaoxiang, and our family opposed this matter, so Ding Xiaoxiang came to our door."
"Ding Xiaoxiang knew that it would not be easy to find our parents directly, so she wanted to meet with you two first."
Ma Baozhu spilled all the beans at once.
"Okay!"
"No problem with this!"
"You can make an appointment with Ding Xiaoxiang, and then talk to me and your brother!"
"It doesn't matter tonight!"
Luo Hongxia thought about it for a while, and immediately nodded and agreed.
Ma Baozhu was stunned for a moment, she didn't expect things to go so smoothly.
"Sister-in-law."
"You are not lying to me, are you?"
Ma Baozhu really didn't believe it.
"How can this be fake?"
"Call Ding Xiaoxiang now, or go directly to Ding Xiaoxiang to make an appointment!"
Luo Hongxia laughed.
"OK!"
"I'm going to find Ding Xiaoxiang now. She's at the fish market in the town. She has a fish stall right there."
"Sister-in-law."
"Don't go anywhere, just wait for my call in this store!"
Ma Baozhu stood up, ran out like a rabbit, and disappeared in the blink of an eye.
"Luo Hongxia!"
"What's going on with you? Why did you agree to this? It's not like you don't know the attitude of our father and mother. You must not let go of this matter, otherwise it will be a big trouble!"
When Ma Shijie saw it, Ma Baozhu disappeared like a happy bird in a blink of an eye. He was angry and anxious when he knew that Luo Hongxia had agreed to meet.
"snort!"
"What do you know?"
Luo Hongxia glared at Ma Shijie fiercely.
"If Ding Dawen said this, or even Ding Dawen's parents said it, it would be of no use. It would definitely be impossible to see this face and eat this meal, but now it is Ding Xiaoxiang who is doing this. That’s different.”
Luo Hongxia thought about it carefully as she spoke.
"ah?"
"Is there any difference here?"
Ma Shijie shook his head and wondered what Luo Hongxia meant in her words. In his opinion, there was really no difference. If his father and mother did not agree, it would be useless for anyone to marry Ma Baozhu to Ding Dawen.
"snort!"
"You and your parents don't really think you can stop Ma Baozhu, do you?"
"If a woman really wants to marry someone, especially in today's society, no matter how much you and your parents object, it won't be of much use."
"Not to mention anything else, she won't marry Ding Dawen, but she also won't marry anyone else. At least this can be done."
"Ma Baozhu is still young now, so there is no problem. In a few years, when he gets older, what will happen to you and your parents? You can't just watch Ma Baozhu stay unmarried for the rest of his life, right? "
"Did you agree or not at that time?"
Luo Hongxia looked at Ma Shijie.
This is not an era where parents can take charge.
Ma Baozhu's parents did not agree with this matter. Ma Baozhu could not marry Ding Dawen, but he could hold on to not marrying anyone else until he got older. In the end, he had to agree to this matter.
Ma Shijie's face suddenly became very ugly. What Luo Hongxia said was not wrong at all. This is what happened. The key is that if something like this really happens, there is nothing he or his parents can do, and they must agree in the end. This matter.
There are already signs of this happening. The family has found many blind dates for Ma Baozhu. Some of the conditions are obviously much better than Ding Dawen's, and the other party is attracted to Ma Baoxuan, but Ma Baozhu just doesn't nod.
What is Ma Baozhu thinking? You can imagine what kind of idea he had.
"Is it possible that you don't know what your sister's personality is like?"
"Do you think what I said makes sense?"
"Ma Baozhu's temper is so stubborn that even ten cows can't get him back from something he decides on."
"Now it's just that Ding Dawen and Ma Baozhu are not very old yet, so the matter has not come to this point, but it will definitely happen in another three to five years."
As a woman, Luo Hongxia understands women very well, especially a person with Ma Baozhu's personality, who is even more capable of doing such a thing.
"It really got to the point where it didn't look good on everyone, and they had to interact with each other. At that time, wasn't it because the eyes were not eyes, and the nose was not a nose, and everyone felt uncomfortable?"
Luo Hongxia shook her head.
"Then what do you think we should do? Whether it's me or my dad, I don't have any objections to Ding Dawen. Ma Baozhu will definitely be very good to Ma Baozhu if he marries Ding Dawen."
"The crux of the problem is that Ding Dawen has no ability to make money to support his family."
Ma Shijie let out a long sigh. He knew that sooner or later, it would be like what Luo Hongxia said. Ma Baozhu's temper seemed to be nothing, and sometimes he even accepted it, but once he made up his mind and got into trouble, he would be like a bull. Can't even pull it back.
"Sometimes I really can't understand what you, or your parents, are thinking in their heads."
"The conditions in Ding Dawen's family are very poor. If they don't have enough to eat, and if Ding Dawen himself doesn't have a stable job, I can understand your unwillingness to marry Ma Baozhu into the family."
"Is this the case now?"
"The conditions in Ding Dawen's family are not bad at all, in fact they are very good."
"Wouldn't Ding Dawen's family be thinking about solving this matter?"
“Even if it’s not too good, it’s certainly not too bad.”
"Why must Shi Dawen be a well-rounded person? Why must Ding Dawen be able to make money?"
Luo Hongxia has been holding it in for a long time. His views on this matter are different from Ma Shijie's and Ma Shijie's parents.
Ding Dawen's job is indeed unstable, but he is honest and willing to work hard.
It is difficult for such a person to make a lot of money, but it is not difficult to support his family.
Another key point is that Ding Dawen's family conditions are not bad. Ma Baozhu may not be able to live a good life after marrying into the family, but she will definitely not have to worry about food and drink.
If Ma Baozhu changes her mind and is willing to marry someone else, there is nothing to say, but if Ma Baozhu insists on marrying Ding Dawen, don't let Ma Baozhu marry Ding Dawen in the end and her relationship with her family will be in turmoil, which is a more troublesome thing.
Ma Shijie wanted to refute, but he didn't know how to refute. From this point of view, what Luo Hongxia said is actually very reasonable. Ding Dawen's job is indeed unstable, but Ding Dawen's family conditions are quite good. Ma Baozhu really can't suffer too much if she marries him. His own views, especially his parents, on this matter are a bit too much.
"Does that mean I have to go back and persuade my parents?"
Ma Shijie felt that he might really have to do this, otherwise Ma Baozhu would have to marry Ding Dawen in the end, and it would be a bad thing to tear her face off.
"You really have to persuade my parents."
"Even if they don't agree now, don't be so fiercely opposed to Ma Baozhu marrying Ding Dawen. You have to wait and see, and don't tear your face off."
"No matter what, we all want Ma Kaibaozhu to marry a good family and live a good life. Don't wait for him to marry Ding Dawen one day. It's not a good thing."
Luo Hongxia nodded without hesitation. Her opinion on this matter was really very simple. If Luo Hongxia changed her mind and was willing to marry someone else, there was nothing to say. Otherwise, she absolutely couldn't force it, and couldn't strongly oppose it, otherwise it would probably end up in a mess.
"Alas!"
"You are right. We really can't tear each other apart. But this matter is really difficult to handle. My parents are very tough. How can we convince them?"
Ma Shijie patted the back of his head hard. My parents are very tough on this matter. They have made a fuss two or three times, but they are not too intense.
"This matter is definitely more difficult than before, but now it is not difficult at all. It can be handled easily."
Luo Hongxia smiled. This matter was really difficult to handle before, but now it is very easy. She even thinks that Ding Dawen and Ma Baozhu have already done it.