Chapter 1228: Tell Me About Your Two Marriages 2

He Xiyan lowered her head speechlessly, while some pictures were rolling in her mind. She still remembered all the things she and Ye Hao experienced when they were together, the feeling of going from heaven to hell.

"Dr. Lan, do you think the man made those promises just to make me happy? I just took them seriously."

There is one thing that she still hasn't let go of. Ye Hao has clearly said more than once that she will treat Yuan Yuan like her own child. It was because of what he said that she dared to go to the castle with her only four-month relationship at the time, and she dared to take the child and remarry. She doesn't demand that he treat Yuanyuan like his own child. She hopes that he can treat Yuanyuan as a relative, nothing more. But he has no feelings for Yuan Yuan.

Professor Lan hummed, but did not answer He Xiyan's question immediately. Instead, she read the information again. After reading, she adjusted her glasses and drank several sips of water:

"What's the point of this question? Some men like to say sweet words. Of course, they are just said casually to coax girls. Even the promises are made casually on a whim. Of course, such words cannot be taken seriously, and smart women do not I will take these words seriously. But your ex-husband told you that he would treat your child as his own child, and he should have made his promise sincerely."

ah……

He Xiyan looked at Professor Lan in surprise, as if she didn't understand what she said.

Professor Lan explained: “What I mean is that when he said this, he felt that he could fulfill the promise he made, but in fact he failed to fulfill it. This was a mistake he made to himself. It's too high of a judgment, and he doesn't know himself very well, but that doesn't deny that he was sincere when he said this. The reason for the conflict in your marriage with him was because of you and your ex-husband. Conflicts caused by the birth of a son. Of course, conflicts like yours exist in many second-marriage families, and many families eventually break up like yours. But your second marriage broke up, and you have a lot of problems. Big responsibility.”

When Professor Lan said these words, a trace of emotion clearly flashed across He Xiyan's eyes. She bit her lip and looked at a cup on the coffee table without blinking for a long time. After a while, she said:

"You are right, Dr. Lan. When I started this relationship, I lacked consideration and did not think about the problems I encountered later. I should not have started this second marriage so easily. This has caused great harm to myself. It caused a lot of harm to my ex-husband.”

He Xiyan said in a deep voice, sighing deeply.

As soon as she finished speaking, Professor Lan shook his head.

"No, He Xiyan, your problem is not here. The process of knowing and falling in love with your second ex-husband was not a big problem. You were attracted to each other and you truly loved each other and came together to have this marriage. , this is a hard-won fate between you, but when you encounter problems in your marriage, you handle them in the wrong way. After the custody of your son was taken away, you failed to handle the relationship with your ex-husband and neglected it. Your husband’s inner feelings at the time made him very sensitive and even anxious, which is why he had so many extreme behaviors later.”

He Xiyan frowned and looked at Professor Lan in confusion.