Chapter 1,226: It’s Too Easy to Fall in Love

She treated that man with all her heart and soul and lost herself. It can be said that she tolerated him in every possible way. During that relationship, she felt that she was very depressed and seemed to have to be careful all the time.

The subsequent marriage came too quickly. She didn't think it through at the time. She had only been with Ye Hao for a short time and didn't know him well. However, she convinced herself to accept him and even believed that she and him would be together. Have a good result.

"You fall into a relationship too easily. He Xiyan..." Professor Lan directly called out He Xiyan's name and looked at her solemnly.

I think this woman's experience made her feel some unspeakable sadness.

"In your first marriage, you lowered your status. Maybe it was because you took the initiative to pursue your first husband, so you always accommodated him. You didn't dare to lose your temper with him. When you quarreled with him, you even accommodated his mother. Your bottomless dedication and forbearance in this marriage led to endless demands from your ex-mother-in-law and ex-husband. This is how human nature is sometimes. You don't know how to cherish things that are too easy to get, and the same is true for relationships, so you feel aggrieved because they don't appreciate your kindness, and even your ex-husband was attracted by beautiful girls outside and betrayed you. marriage."

What Professor Lan said is heart-breaking. He Xiyan's heart trembled. She bit her lip and didn't reply. She just lowered her eyes, with some tears in her eyes.

Professor Lan continued:

"You don't have to doubt your first ex-husband's feelings for you. Judging from the status of your marriage described in your information and his behavior after the divorce, he is sincere to you. It can be said that he loves you very much. Of course. He probably didn't realize this until after you divorced. He may not know exactly when he fell in love with you, but when you really didn't belong to him, he was very panicked. This is what we often say. What is lost and what is not obtained is the best. People only learn to cherish it after losing it. "He is such a person."

"He himself has a big problem. He was at a loss about relationships at the beginning. He chose to fall in love with you not because he loved you, but because his age and physical condition at the time made him want a girl. Accompanying him gives some color to his boring life. To put it most directly, he regards it as a physiological need, and his identity and education allow him to suppress this desire in his heart, and you happen to be here At this time, you appeared and you were willing to love him without reservation, including living with him, and you were an obedient and well-behaved girl at the time, which was exactly what he wanted. "

"So you are together in this situation. This way of obtaining love causes him to subconsciously not think that he loves you. He is also used to your dedication and kindness, but his emotional intelligence is not high. He doesn’t have a deep understanding of love, so he may not realize that his feelings for you are slowly changing. He doesn’t even realize that the girl he is looking for outside is very similar to you, and she is just as proactive. You also tried to please and care for him in every possible way. Later, you got divorced and you fell in love with another man, so he began to reflect on himself. "