Chapter 378 Teacher Ning Sets Up a Stall

They were shocked.

Many of them were students who had never taken Ning Youguang's class before.

It was the first time for them to hear the goddess speak so many words to them, and to have such a close contact with the goddess. They couldn't be more excited and found it interesting.

While I was fascinated by listening, I couldn't help picking up my mobile phone and calling friends and classmates in the various groups to come and listen.

Soon, many students who heard the news gathered around Ning Youguang.

"Ms. Ning, can I ask you to give us love counseling." In the crowd, a male student who was slightly fat and of average height asked.

As Ning Youguang chatted with his classmates, the students around him became more and more courageous to ask questions.

"Yes." Ning Youguang looked gently at the student who wanted to ask her for love counseling and said, "What is your love problem?"

"No, I'm fine. I'm just asking for it." The chubby male student lowered his head shyly.

There are several male classmates around him, and they seem to be a group of people who have a good time.

Seeing that the fat boy was too shy to ask the goddess any more questions, they laughed and teased him.

On the other side, a girl immediately seized this opportunity to ask Ning Youguang——

"Mr. Ning, what I want to ask is, if we fall in love, how should we choose the other half?"

Ning Youguang turned his gaze away from the group of slightly fat boys, and landed on the girl who asked the question, "You must have heard such a sentence before."

She said, "It's one kind of person to fall in love with you, and another kind of person to marry you. What this sentence means is that you can set your standards before falling in love with the kind of person you like. The person who meets your conditions in this world is definitely not a single person, but the investigation period before falling in love. I suggest that you don’t rush to become lovers. You can make friends with each other first. Making friends means that you are not in a relationship. You are just a friendship, and how far this friendship goes in the end depends on how comfortable the two of you are with each other."

"What I mean is, if you are considering whether someone should be your significant other, you must know in your heart that I am not in love with you for the sake of falling in love, but that you know very well in your heart that you Being with each other is to see if it is comfortable. If you are uncomfortable, you can keep the distance between each other. Don’t get too close. If you are comfortable, you can take a step closer. I think this kind of relationship will be more mature, and the relationship will also make each other more mature The level of comfort is much higher.”

There was warm applause all around.

The female classmate asked again, "How can I tell whether the other party really loves me or fake loves me?"

Her question expressed the aspirations of many students present, and the scene was silent.

Ning Youguang said, "A person who truly loves you will see you and your needs, while a person who loves you falsely can only see his own needs. When you find that you cannot be true to the other person When you are yourself, this is not love, if you twist your heart for a long time, there will be a thunderstorm one day."

Another classmate asked, "Teacher, I feel that I have many flaws in my body, and I don't have a good relationship with the opposite sex. What should I do if no one will love me?"

Ning Youguang turned his head to look at the questioner, and found that he was a boy with a short stature and a very ordinary face.

"Tolstoy once said, 'everyone has flaws, like an apple bitten by God, and some people have bigger flaws, just because God likes his fragrance so much.'" She smiled at him and said , "The so-called love comes back, and blessing comes back. If you feel that you have no love, give love. If the opposite sex is not good, you should concentrate on doing what you can do first, so that your social value can be improved. , and usually help others a lot, because you don’t know when fate will take care of you and shine a bright light on the gloomy future you thought.”

"Goddess, do you think getting rich can solve the pain in our lives?" Another classmate asked.

"When we were materially poor, everyone thought, if I get rich one day, then all my problems will be solved, and I don't need anything else, but actually when people After you really have money, you will find that many problems cannot be solved." Ning Youguang replied.

"Goddess, how do you understand the four words of inner strength?" The person who asked this question was a girl wearing glasses, but at the age of twenty, her eyes were different and sharp.

After Ning Youguang looked at her, he said softly, "Many people think that being 'strong in heart' means becoming the most indestructible in the universe. But the fact is the opposite. A person with a strong heart is real. Consistent. She will bravely show and express all aspects of herself, including strong and vulnerable, happy and sad; she will open her heart to others, and will not close herself because of hurt; she will easily feel happy, Also full of empathy for the pain of others, and an attitude of acceptance and tenderness towards myself and others.”

"Is that so?" The girl was lost in thought.

Ning Youguang nodded firmly, "Yes."

"Mr. Ning, I am often not sure about my abilities. What should I do to make myself more sure of myself?"

"Do more things, and you will be sure of your ability."

The school's well-known Goddess teacher of Psychology—Professor Ning set up a stall under the magnolia tree to provide free consultations for all students in the school, which is unprecedented in UCAS.

This is a rare opportunity. When the students saw that she patiently answered no matter what questions they asked, they asked questions about life, love, future career development, and self-growth that they encountered in daily life.

Some classmates even asked her how to deal with the conflicts between herself and her friends, and how to deal with the conflicts between herself and her parents...

The types of questions are quite diverse too.

So, they surrounded her from dusk to dusk.

On this day, on the campus of the National University of Science and Technology.

The playground blown by the wind, the dotted street lamps, and the bustling crowd became gentle because of the person who sat under the magnolia tree and patiently answered the students' questions.

When the game ends.

Ning Youguang said, "You have asked me so many wonderful questions today, now, I want to ask you a question too, okay?"

"Okay." The voices of the students resounded over the campus of UCAS.

"My question is—what have you done to prove that you haven't wasted your life?" 1314

Regarding the part of falling in love, I refer to Professor Li Meijin’s theory of love~