Chapter 145 How Lucky He Was to Meet Her
After the middle-aged lady finished telling her story, she looked at Ning Youguang with a puzzled face.
Ning Youguang smiled, and analyzed with her: "This involves the corresponding relationship between mentality and disease. Systolic blood pressure is something you should not do for others, and a competitive mood leads to directional movement of qi and blood, which increases systolic blood pressure. Your unbalanced mood, we call it a signal, it can cause you to get sick, you have to think carefully about what you just said."
"I just can't think about it." The middle-aged lady frowned deeply.
"It's been more than a year, and the result you still can't figure out is that your body has problems, hasn't it?"
The middle-aged lady bowed her head and said, "Is that so?"
"Yes, I think the leader should not let you step down. This is the direct cause of your high blood pressure." Ning Youguang said unhurriedly, "Retiring is a one-size-fits-all approach. From the perspective of a leader, why do you have to be special and what special conditions do you have? Change your thinking on this matter and think about it calmly."
After a long silence, the lady looked at Ning Youguang and agreed, "Doctor Ning, what you said makes sense."
Following that, she felt her head lighten up a lot.
Ning You knew her physical and emotional changes just by looking at her face, and furthermore, he explained to her the law of diastolic blood pressure in detail.
"Diastolic blood pressure is to compete with what you think you shouldn't do. This mood causes qi and blood to produce a directional physiological effect, causing you to have low pressure and high pressure."
The lady thought for a while and admitted: "Over the past year, I do have such a mentality."
Ning Youguang asked: "If you want to believe me, can you tell me?"
The middle-aged woman hugged the water tightly, "After I retired, I did housework at home to take care of my granddaughter, but I don't think I should be a housewife. Doing so has no value in life. In the past, I have always looked down on housewives."
There was pain in her dark eyes.
Ning Youguang said: "When you are a housewife, you also indirectly contribute to the country, because you take care of your granddaughter at home and contribute to the family. You let your son and daughter-in-law have no worries and can work with peace of mind. This is a great value. .”
After Ning Youguang's enlightenment, the middle-aged lady's concept changed.
half an hour later.
Ning Youguang smiled and said, "Let's measure your blood pressure again."
The middle-aged lady nodded.
After measurement, the number displayed on the sphygmomanometer is "130/90mmHg".
The middle-aged lady looked at the numbers on the sphygmomanometer and felt stunned. She didn't recover for a long time.
After a long time, she exclaimed in amazement: "Doctor Ning, you are really amazing. Your healing method is also amazing. It not only lowered my high blood pressure, but also opened my heart knot." Her The face is full of joy, and the person is also in the excitement, "Now not only my head is relaxed, but my heart is also at ease."
Ning Youguang smiled and put away the sphygmomanometer in front of him, "Actually, I just correctly used the corresponding relationship between mentality and body."
The middle-aged lady asked curiously: "Then what mentality does my disease correspond to?"
Ning Youguang put the sphygmomanometer into the cabinet, returned to the middle-aged lady and sat down:
"You have two negative attitudes, one is dissatisfaction with the leader's approach, and your psychological tendency is inner rebellion, and the power of inner rebellion will definitely lead to increased systolic blood pressure during vasoconstriction, and after that For more than a year, you have been in a tense state of resistance, and it has continued to form a stable lesion. After our communication today, you have changed your concept, and the mentality of resistance has been removed. The pressure on the body is instantly relieved, so the head is relaxed immediately, and the systolic blood pressure is also lowered; the second state of mind is that you are unwilling to your current situation and practices, so you are not completely satisfied when you are doing housework at home and taking care of your granddaughter. Let go, if you can completely let go and do these things at home, you will be in a completely relaxed and comfortable state inside, without the symptoms of increased diastolic blood pressure. Just like if someone asks you to When you go out to sweep the streets, if your heart fully accepts the matter of sweeping the streets, there will be no pressure in your heart. If you don’t accept it, you will have a lot of negative emotions, you will be very nervous, and your heart will be in a state of contraction. It raises blood pressure."
Seeing that the middle-aged lady listened carefully, Ning Youguang added:
"Now that your concept has changed, and you have accepted these things that you can't figure out, you will immediately let go of your heart, so your diastolic blood pressure will also drop."
"Why do I have such a mentality?" The lady was a little puzzled.
"This has something to do with your mental operation. You think highly of yourself. Whenever others don't evaluate you enough, you show an attitude of dissatisfaction. You use this mentality to face the outside world. It's like many people, especially many young people, grew up under the doting of their parents when they were young, and their family members will give them whatever they want. Over time, they have formed a mentality that they have to be satisfied with everything. If he is satisfied, he will be unhappy and dissatisfied with others. When he grows up and goes to a social environment, it is impossible for the people around him to satisfy his wishes everywhere. At home, he is the center and the family listens to him. Not outside, it is impossible for people outside to revolve around him. He gets along with others according to the mode of his own sexual ability. Whenever he encounters others who don’t listen to him, he gets angry in his heart, but he dare not vent his anger on others. body, after a long time, he will get shortness of breath, which is caused by the inability to breathe out in his heart."
"Another example is indigestion caused by inner indigestion, which causes physical indigestion. Everyone has such experience more or less, that is, when you can't digest certain things in your heart, or a certain way others do to you, your appetite will be reduced. Weakened, the digestive ability of the stomach will be weakened, which is the same physiological change that has been caused. According to this understanding, if a person is often mentally confused about people and things, over time, the stomach and intestines will be in this state of low digestive function for a long time , when repeated to a certain amount, from qualitative change to quantitative change, there will be organic lesions in the stomach."
"In fact, every time we have negative emotions, it will cause some damage to our body. It's just that when it's small, we generally don't notice it. After a long time, we can find out when the disease is serious. This is also the so-called 'illness' Of course, sometimes people's emotions are suddenly very strong, and they will suddenly reach a 'quantitative change' and fall ill."
The middle-aged lady nodded fearfully: "So there is a saying that heart disease needs heart medicine."
Ning Youguang nodded: "That's the truth. Many diseases in our body can only be cured from the heart, and external medicines can only temporarily treat the symptoms. As long as a person does not change his mentality and views of the outside world, The same kind of disease will continue to recur, and when it encounters strong stimuli, it will worsen."
This is also the reason why she finally switched from Chinese medicine to psychology in her previous life.
Because she saw the underlying logic of the disease.
And she also learned what the heart is all about through learning, so she precisely prescribed the "drug" to herself.
After the consultation, the middle-aged lady happily left Ning Youguang's office.
"Mr. Ning, you are busy, you are busy, don't send me, I will go back by myself."
Her steps of leaving were much lighter than when she came, and her voice became cheerful, unlike when she came, it was full of resentment.
The whole person is full of vitality, like a new life.
Ning Youguang stood by the door, looked at her receding back, and smiled softly.
The corners of the eyes and brows that are as picturesque as a painting are filled with complete joy.
Shi Mochizuki, who came earlier, quietly leaned against the wall.
A pair of deep eyes, looking at the joy on her face, and the satisfied figure of the middle-aged lady when she left, gradually fell into the memory.
He will always remember that in the Chinese class in the third grade of elementary school, the teacher asked everyone in the class to write a composition with the theme "My Dream".
At that time, some people wrote that they wanted to be a rich man when they grew up, some people wrote that they wanted to be a policeman when they grew up, some people wrote that they wanted to be a scientist when they grew up, and some people wrote that they wanted to be a star when they grew up...
Only her, with four words written neatly on the notebook: "Cure the sick and save the sick".
Time flies, time flies.
Time flies and nearly twenty years have passed.
The one who was clamoring to become a rich man is now an ordinary person in the camp. The one who vowed to be a policeman to protect everyone has become a shrewd and capable businessman. The person who was full of longing and longing to become a star, had already married and had a child and became someone else's mother.
Only her in front of her has never changed her original intention, and is diligently working as a teacher and a doctor to heal diseases and save lives.
Save lives and save hearts.
In this world, everything is becoming faster, information is, people's hearts are, and technology is.
Only she never changed her original intention, just like when he saw her for the first time, her eyes were bright and gazing, and her eyes were as clear as water, pure and kind.
How lucky he was to meet her.
How lucky he was to meet her early in his life. 1314