Chapter 170 It's Like I Met You

After lying down on the grass, the two got up and continued on their way.

It was almost noon, but there was no place to eat along the road.

Ning Youguang was worried that Shi Wangyue was hungry, so he handed him a bag of torn bread, "First, eat some bread to cushion your stomach."

Shi Mochizuki took her hand and took a big bite.

Ning Youguang gave him another bottle of water, "Traveling in the Northwest is like this. You have to feel its most beautiful side and accept its barrenness."

Shi Mochizuki took a sip from the bottle, "I know."

...

After driving for a while, the two finally saw a small wooden house on the side of the road. There were a few words written in Tibetan and Chinese on the small wooden house, which said it was a restaurant.

The two parked their car on the side of the road, planning to have a hearty meal here.

They stepped on the gravel road at the door, entered the shop, and walked into the dining room.

There were other guests in the restaurant, and stewed mutton, grilled mutton, and several plates of vegetables were placed on the table.

"Please sit down, please sit down!" The owner of the shop spoke Chinese, and he was very busy while greeting.

Behind him stood an elderly woman, apparently the owner's wife.

There was also a girl about fifteen years old in the room.

When he was seated, Ning Youguang accidentally touched his spoon with his arm.

With a "dang", the spoon fell to the ground.

The shopkeeper glared at his wife, who turned around and blamed the girl who was standing by.

The girl hurried into another room, took out a spoon, and handed it to Ning Youguang timidly. She was hunched over, her hands trembling slightly.

Shi Wangyue and Ning Youguang looked at each other across the table.

"Please use it slowly!" The shop owner handed a set of tableware to Shi Mochizuki.

Ning Youguang and Shi Wangyue were having dinner while chatting about work, investment, teaching, cases and so on.

The innkeeper had left the dining room, but his wife was still standing by.

When the woman and her daughter handed a plate of fruit in front of them, the girl's elbow accidentally knocked Ning Youguang's glass over, splashing water all over the table.

Her mother rushed over angrily, scolded her daughter loudly in Tibetan, and drove her away.

"I'm sorry, I'm sorry!" The woman apologized while wiping off the water on the table, "This girl is really clumsy."

The girl became angry, and she grabbed the remaining fruit and threw it at her mother, but missed.

Shards of fruit and china were flying all over the table.

The shopkeeper came in in time and shouted loudly, scaring the girl to run away.

"Sorry!" The owner rushed to the table of two people.

"It's okay, don't be so cruel to your daughter!" Ning Youguang said with a smile.

Mochizuki stood up to pay the bill, and they left quickly.

...

Ning Youguang kept silent.

When she walked out of the store and walked to the car on the side of the road, she said, "Did you see that girl?"

Shi Mochizuki looked at her.

"She is a classic victim of psychological violence. The human desire to control other people, if left unchecked, can have this effect. The shopkeeper and his wife are completely above the girl. Did you notice that, This girl is hunched over and nervous?"

"I noticed!" Shi Mochizuki frowned, "It seems that she has had enough."

"Yes! Her parents never let her go. From her point of view, she had no choice but to fight back violently. Only then could she gain some control for herself. Unfortunately, due to childhood trauma Traumatized, she will grow up feeling that she has to use the same drastic means to gain control and dominate others. This personality trait will become ingrained and make her as violent as her parents, especially When dealing with vulnerable people, especially children."

After a short break, Ning Youguang continued: "Actually, we can conclude that her parents suffered from the same trauma when they were young. Now they have to dominate their daughter, because their parents dominated them back then. Psychological violence is like this. Passed down from generation to generation."

[In human culture, this kind of psychological violence occurs all the time, and the perpetrators often feel that they have good intentions. ]

"When two people are arguing, they are insisting that their views on something are right and correct. Both want to win the other, overwhelm the other, find ways to destroy the other's self-confidence, and even openly confront each other."

Shi Mochizuki looked up at the sky, "I understand." His voice was low and deep.

"What do you understand?" Ning Youguang asked.

"If we have a system to observe the movement of the magnetic field between people, we will understand what human beings gain when they compete, attack and hurt each other. That is, once we control another person, we can receive his energy , We deprive others of things to enrich ourselves, this is the real motive of our behavior." It was also the motive of Liu Susu's behavior when he controlled him in the past.

The child is really a very savvy person.

Ning Youguang secretly admired, "Yes, human beings have the tendency to control and dominate others, although most of the time most of them are not aware of this, but when a person tries to control another person, he is robbing that person energy to feel fulfilled.”

"So during the meal just now, that couple has been plundering that girl's energy?" Shi Mochizuki said after thinking, "The girl has been forced to the verge of collapse by them. When they were arguing, I felt that the atmosphere between them was very strange. , They are pulling each other, it seems that they can only stop when they subdue each other."

Ning Youguang fell into deep thought, "Ordinary people haven't realized this yet. Many people only know that they feel weak, and they have to bully others to make themselves feel better. What they don't realize is that, for their own sake, In a good mood, they made others pay a terrible price. They stole energy from others, and most people spend their entire lives searching and capturing energy from others, which also shows that they have always been in a negative energy zone."

When Mochizuki looked at Ning Youguang, her eyes shone brightly, "But occasionally there are exceptions, we occasionally meet a person, from the moment we know each other, she will voluntarily transmit her energy to us .”

[It's like I met you. ]

Outside the house, the sky is crystal clear, and the sun shines brightly on a mountain peak.

Ning Youguang was walking on the side of the road, looking at the white clouds floating in the sky and the mountains in the distance through her fingers. The sun fell on her eyebrows and hair, creating a beautiful melting light.

Both of them walked slowly with calm faces until they got into the car.

Shi Mochizuki tried to summarize the meaning of what Ning Youguang said to him, "You talked about how to deal with the relationship between people - how we should treat children and adults. You also talked about how to identify , How to break the control drama performed by others, and how to establish a new relationship with them?"

Ning Youguang nodded slowly. 1314