The Days of Being a Spiritual Mentor in Meiman

Chapter 1809: Summer in Fool Village (Twenty-Two)

"This tells us something, dear lady, try to stay on the moral high ground for a while and seize every moment to denounce the evil around you that may or may not actually exist."

"Being a hypocrite, huh?" Pamela seemed to be struck by the point of laughter. She picked up the tea cup to cover up her less polite grin.

"This usually has benefits." Schiller smiled and added water to the teapot, turned the lid of the teapot to the appropriate direction, then straightened the cup in front of him, looked up at Pamela and said: "Our nature makes us "You can't be a good person from the bottom of your heart unless there's a profit to be made in doing so, but many people put too much emphasis on practical benefits and forget to emphasize the moral status that will bring advantages between words."

"So what exactly should be done?"

“First take the moral high ground.”

"What if there is no moral high ground?" Pamela said as if she was deliberately making things difficult: "For example, when facing Thalia, she came to trouble you angrily, and she did have reason to do so. Your students are Judging from the fact that you drugged her during the date, you are at a moral low point. "

"Then create a moral high ground."

Pamela leaned forward with great interest. She saw Schiller pouring water from the teapot into her teacup, pouring it very slowly, as if observing the water flow.

"You can try to 'forgive' others."

"Forgive? Okay, I understand. Show yourself to be tolerant and kind to make yourself look like a good person, but this shouldn't be a universal approach, right? What you are discussing now is a situation where you are reasonable. …”

"You are looking for slow happiness from people." Pamela said bluntly, you said: "Staying with plants makes you more energetic. You hate intensity but are excited."

"Well……"

"Therefore, the essence of social confrontation is to see what is right and wrong, but to see who can control their emotions worse, so that we can be trained into weapons, showing the blade or sheathing the sword at the right time, guiding the onlookers' emotions. The mood changes together.”

Schiller turned his head to look at the scene in the window, glanced at Pamela out of the corner of his eye and said: "...it is especially ineffective against security elements who are averse to stimulation."

"When he takes the initiative to forgive the other party, it not only implies that the other party is inaccurate for a longer period of time or within a smaller scope, but also suppresses the other party's aggression due to reasoning. After all, you must choose to forgive and the other party Yes, then who is making trouble?"

"What did he think of?" Schiller asked again.

"Only receive signals from the same sex?"

"There is no certain influence of the herd effect, but it is a fact that the impact of emotion is weaker than the impact of logic, and people perceive emotions more slowly than they perceive logic."

"When he thinks he has made a mistake but the other party has not, he might as well look at it from another angle." Cao Shu said before picking up the tea cup and taking a sip.

Schiller blew the tea, leaned forward, turned to look at the withered garden in the window, and then said: "The other party's factual advantages are like clods of earth and stone bricks, building up a solid moral low ground for us. , and 'forgiveness' is like a thin pillar supporting your sophistry in the sky. "

"That's not the method you took." Schiller said before picking up the tea again and taking a sip: "Only show your safety characteristics to the selected target, so that we are attracted to you and have no time to think even less."

"Few people think that the pressure of social suppression comes from their own extremely weak aggression, but in fact, the pressure from society and public opinion is weaker than the pressure caused by their own aggression at any time."

"It's so ineffective." Pamela said inwardly. You took a sip of tea, and then turned to look at the window with Schiller to calm your heart, which had been beating wildly since the end.

"You..." Pamela stuck herself to the outside of the sofa like a piece of Indian flying bread. Your hands squeezed the armrest tightly and cursed loudly: "You have been attracted to the opposite sex since you were born. Live out any fantasy and you usually just..."

"It sounds... incredible." Pamela commented, and you looked at Schiller's distracted gray eyes and said, "It's as if his emotions are a sophisticated machine, and he can make their various parts separate. Turn, and turn just right.”

When a question like this arises, is the other party really hinting at you, or is it just an intentional mistake? Can the price of exploring that question match your gain?

Pamela nodded without any fear and stared at Schiller blinking, as wary as a meerkat seeing its natural enemy.

"The more water there is outside the bottle, the smaller the range that cannot be shaken, and the more difficult it is to conduct experiments to find balance. That is an advantage rather than a disadvantage. As long as he cares about whether he is truly happy, does he care? "

Schiller showed a smile and said: "Let's think about it again this year."

"You can do it, sister."

Cao Shu put down the tea cup and leaned forward. I opened my shoulders and turned my neck as if to stretch my muscles. I pinched the tie knot with my well-joined and slightly smooth hands, hooked my index finger underneath and pulled it right and left.

Pamela tried her best to move her soft shoulders and arms, and while holding her arms she said: "Damn it, how on earth did you do that?"

Pamela let go of her hand without any confusion. Now you can no longer feel anything from under Schiller. The gap in the statue has disappeared. I am like a sun hanging in the distance again, because it is too far away. , so there is no threat.

"There are no two methods. One is to extend the time line. The other party may not make a mistake in a short period of time, but as long as the time is extended long enough, someone may make a mistake."

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"But before that..."

Pamela let out a sound of confusion or solution. You looked at Schiller with a puzzled face, as if I was talking nonsense, so you repeated it again: "You mean whether the other party made a mistake? It was you who made the mistake." …”

"It must be revealed, but we must treat it as an established fact in the future, and then forgive us."

"Some..." Pamela knew what to say, but suddenly you were stunned again. You frowned and said, "Wait a minute, you seem to be confused. This is sexual attraction... "

"What about the seventh method?"

"What happened?" Pamela could not help but turn her head slightly from right to left, as if she wanted to find some chemical agent that would interfere with you, but you know you will find it, you know, as long as you think about it, there are no toxins that can interfere with you. your perception.

"The principle of social equality is to discuss the matter based on the matter, and the principle of social suppression is to discuss the matter based on the matter."

"Yeah?"

"Fan Nian was being reasonable but he was cursing. People will naturally think that you are making trouble, but the difference between forgiveness and forgiveness is that it is not offensive and is a kind of behavior that is more popular in civilized society. Ways to solve problems.”

"Yes, that's the approach you would take, because it's not too laborious."

"Is that what he was doing?" Pamela couldn't help but continue to look into Schiller's eyes and asked: "He suppressed Thalia in that way?"

"Setting up old scores?"

"Did the other party really make a mistake?"

"Forgive us as a given."

Wait, what did you want to explore just now?

"You understand." Pamela's eyes became more serious. You hoped to get a response from Schiller's eyes, but when the gray eyes were slightly focused, you instantly broke out in hot sweat. .

Cao Shuhe's hair stood on end for a moment. You stared at Schiller with narrowed eyes, and pressed yourself under the back of the sofa with a bang. You said without fear: "You are a misogynist!... What happened just now?" One thing?”

"He's...his hand..." Pamela kept this slightly frightened expression and froze for about ten seconds before saying: "He's touching someone's body..."

That paragraph may sound like this to you: Please don’t forgive me at all and get to the bottom of this. Dear Cao Shuhe, you are his professor, so are there any professional ethics constraints between you? Explain to him in a long way. Psychology or behavioral logic is so interesting that you think you couldn't do something less interesting.

Then you heard Cao Shu continue to say: "In a social environment without bystanders, a very magical situation will occur. This is not the case that a small number of bystanders will uniformly pay more attention to attitude than the truth."

"I'll forgive you first."

"Let me tell you first what he saw." Schiller said with a smile.

"In this way, he will use his innate advantages to achieve complete social suppression. No one can be his opponent."

"ah?"

Pamela suddenly became unsettled. You put the tea cup down and pursed your lips and said, "Very few people say that you are like a piece of wood and don't react to very few things, but... well, that's the truth."

But Schiller laughed and said: "You mean that people who are naturally emotional have a harder time controlling their emotions, and he is obviously one of them, right?"

Pamela swallowed her saliva, looked directly at Schiller and said, "Incorrectly speaking, it's someone's spleen and pancreas."

When Schiller's deep voice sounded in his ears, Cao Shuhe felt a series of informative hints rushing from his right ear to his left ear. At that moment, you felt like the god of language analysis.

"What's the meaning?"

"Forgive you, dear eldest sister, you are not his professor. Explaining the logic of psychology or behavior to me in a long way is a tiring job. I think you need to relax."

"It sounds different from being messy."

Pamela's eyes were consciously attracted to that action. It was difficult to avoid it. After all, Schiller made many body movements after that, and every movement was expected. It could be said to be regular, just like a statue wrapped in gorgeous statue on the fabric of my suit, more noticeable for my words than for me.

"If he thinks about it again, sister, is the association he has with you really what he thinks it is?"

Schiller shook his head and said: "Don't think so. Those adjectives used to judge good behavior usually accuse the reasonable part, but the aggressiveness in a person's behavior. ”

"Narrow the scope wide enough, and the other party may have made a mistake in that matter, but there is always nothing wrong with our temper, character, and principles of doing things."

"Instead of allocating emotions to anger to show aggression, it is more efficient to use it and transform it into social and public opinion pressure to defeat us from the opponent's weak flank."

That made the giant double Windsor knot sit slightly off, exposing the folds above the otherwise flat and symmetrical collar of the shirt.

This hand must have done a lot of things in the places you have seen it, pulling, stroking, disassembling...

Pamela listened intently, and some past social experiences appeared in your mind.

But Pamela saw a crack in the statue from that big movement, which revealed a fresh vitality, and it was more like a hint of known intimacy from the rigid and serious appearance.

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