Chapter 592 Yu Meitong Wants to Fall in Love
Yu Meitong was actually very satisfied with the boy. He looked like what she liked, he was gentle, and he was capable and was a deputy manager at a young age. But with a family like his, Yu Meitong didn't want to quarrel over money in the future. Having been poor, she knew how hard it was to live without money.
Lu Jiaxin actually felt a little reluctant to see her. Yes, reason is one thing, and feelings are another.
After thinking for a while, Lu Jiaxin said, "Didn't we just talk about how Nie Zhan always abandoned me? The Nie family is rich, and many things can be solved with money. Nie Zhan just helped to make plans. But the man who pursues you is from a poor family. If he needs you to help, you will not only have to work hard but also pay."
"Sister Meitong, if you are just dating, it's okay, just be happy. But if you are going to get married, forget it. It will be very hard to work hard at that time."
It's not that the other family will definitely suck Yu Meitong's blood, but will you help if you need help? Rejecting once or twice, and refusing again and again will definitely affect the relationship between husband and wife, and the end will be a mess.
Zong Shimeng asked a realistic question: "How old is this man? Has he bought a house?"
Yu Meitong said: "He is one year younger than me. He bought a house in Yuen Long at the beginning of the month. The house is more than 700 square feet."
"Have you gone shopping with him?"
Yu Meitong shook her head: "I don't plan to accept him. I haven't gone shopping with him."
Lu Jiaxin said: "Sister Meitong, you are right not to accept him. You spent more than 20,000 shopping with us today. The man's monthly salary should not be that much, right?"
"He earns more than 14,000 yuan, and there are quarterly bonuses and year-end bonuses." Yu Meitong said. It is good to have such an income at this age.
Lu Jiaxin couldn't help shaking her head when she heard that and said, "Sister Meitong, her monthly salary plus bonus is not enough for you to go shopping."
"When you are in love, you won't say anything even if you don't agree, but marriage is different. There are only two endings. One is that you compromise and lower your quality of life in the future; the other is endless quarrels and then go your separate ways."
"No third?"
Lu Jiaxin shook her head and said, "No. Life is not a fairy tale. I told Shi Xinyu this before, and now I'm telling you the same thing."
"Take me and Nie Zhan as an example. If I were just an ordinary white-collar worker, I might date him but I would never get married. Marriage. Once married, not only will you have to bear the resistance from the Nie family, but you will also have to break down barriers and integrate into his circle. It's too tiring. "
Zong Shimeng laughed: "Aren't you afraid that Nie Zhan will hear it?"
Lu Jiaxin is not afraid: "It's okay for me to tell him directly. The difference between the two families is too big. Not only the other party's family, but also friends will look down on you. Life is fleeting for decades. I just want to be happy and happy. I don't want to endure this and give in to that. "
Yu Meitong was a little scared after hearing this. She decided to wait until Monday to go to work and find a time to tell the man clearly: "I'd better concentrate on work, promotion and salary increase!"
Lu Jiaxin was very satisfied. It's good to listen to advice. Maybe the man's family is harmonious, but it will be really hard to be compatible from top to bottom, and the result of tolerance is not necessarily good.
A few days later, Lu Jiaxin just came back from a walk in the garden and received a call from Yu Meitong.
Yu Meitong said angrily: "That bastard, I just rejected him three days ago, and yesterday I saw him drinking coffee with the secretary of the manager of my company's publicity department in a coffee shop."
She was sad and guilty after rejecting him, but she didn't expect that he was a fisherman. The more she thought about it, the more disgusted she felt, but she couldn't tell anyone, otherwise the other party might blame her.
Lu Jiaxin asked: "Does the secretary come from a wealthy family?"
Yu Meitong confirmed her guess: "Although I don't know what kind of family she comes from, she wears all famous brands and carries CC and Chanel bags. Yesterday she carried the latest Chanel model."
"What's so rubbish about this that you're angry about?"
Yu Meitong felt stupid when she heard it: "Jiaxin, do you think I should remind her? So that she won't be fooled."
"You can remind her, but you can't tell her. You have to find someone she has a good relationship with. Otherwise, she will think you have a crush on that man and instigate them out of jealousy."
Yu Meitong felt fortunate to have complained to Jiaxin, otherwise telling the secretary impulsively might have a bad impact.
Lu Jiaxin asked with a smile: "Do you want to date?"
Yu Meitong did want to date, and she didn't hesitate: "Seeing you all so sweet, I also want to date. Also, you are getting engaged this year, and you are going to get married and have children in two years. I can't fall behind you too much."
Wanting to date proves that you have walked out of the shadow of the previous relationship. Lu Jiaxin said cheerfully: "What do you want for your future partner? Sister Shimeng and I will help you find it."
Yu Meitong knew that although she was not sociable, there were many elites in Wansheng Real Estate and Xinxin Real Estate, and these were all resources. She said without hesitation: "You must be loyal in your relationship and have a promising job like me. I don't ask for a lot of money, but I can't be poor."
"What about appearance?"
Yu Meitong said: "The appearance must be above 7 points. It's too ugly, otherwise the child will be ugly. That bad boy looks so gentle, but it's a pity that he is a scumbag."
If someone is not loyal in love, she will not want him no matter how good he looks or how well-off his family is. She can't fall in the same place again after suffering a loss once.
Lu Jiaxin hung up the phone and went through the company's senior employees in her mind. Yes, they are all over 30, and most of them have families.
Walking after dinner in the evening, Lu Jiaxin asked Nie Zhan: "Do you have any handsome guys with good personalities in your company?"
Relatively speaking, more real estate companies meet Yu Meitong's conditions. Because the real estate company has more prospects, and Wansheng is the N04 of Gangcheng Real Estate Company, the people who can get into it are all graduates of prestigious schools with strong abilities.
Nie Zhan stopped, looked at her and asked, "Why are you asking this all of a sudden?"
Lu Jiaxin talked about Meitong: "She never mentioned it before because the wound has not completely healed. Now that she wants to date, it means that this matter has become a thing of the past, so I want to introduce her to one. Xinxin Real Estate and Green Forest, I searched and found nothing suitable.”
"What are your requirements?"
"I have outstanding abilities and am hard-working. I have a good-looking personality. As for my family background, it is enough that my parents have decent jobs." Lu Jiaxin said. My parents have decent jobs and are middle-class in Hong Kong. I have outstanding abilities and a good future, which is a good match for Yu Meitong.
Nie Zhan did not shirk and said, "When I get to work tomorrow, I will ask the secretary to compile the information of the company's middle-level leaders to see if there are any who meet your requirements."
Lu Jiaxin said with a smile: "I called Sister Shimeng and asked her to help search for it. If she knows more people, she will probably move faster than me."