Chapter 469 Acceptance and Guidance

Everyone had dinner in a somewhat dull atmosphere. The mother and daughter went to wash the pots and dishes, while Dad Yun and Han Li sat in the yard to chat.

Dad Yun had already tacitly accepted Han Li's identity as his son-in-law at this moment. At the same time, he also knew that Han Li could go back to the city to work at any time if he wanted to.

So Dad Yun was always the leader in the conversation between the two. He used himself as an example in a self-deprecating way to tell Han Li about some of the social customs and some unknown rules in government agencies.

Dad Yun started by talking about the fact that too much talk leads to mistakes and disasters come from the mouth in government agencies.

For example: everyone talks about others behind their backs, and everyone is talked about behind their backs. As long as the other party does not say bad things about you in person, you should ignore what you hear behind your back to avoid affecting your emotions. Don't be easily influenced by these words of others, which will lead to your own thinking, otherwise you will do what the other party wants.

And sometimes you have to tell the real events you see and hear as lies, otherwise you are not real.

Sometimes you have to tell the lies you see as real, otherwise you will definitely be fictional.

So only say half of what you want to say to people, and don't try to find comfort and friendship in the unit.

Because there is no absolute right or wrong, right or wrong in the unit, there are only disputes over positions and interests, for example.

Connections: 90% of the current government agencies have connections and family backgrounds, and the difference is nothing more than the importance, size, and distance.

Unless you have a powerful background, no matter how your connections are, you should focus on the top leader in the unit.

Because he is the one who can really decide your fate, his needs are the needs of the unit, and his words are your only instructions, even in the end.

Efforts: If you don't have connections and family background, don't be discouraged. Work hard to write good materials and reports, and find ways to get your articles published in newspapers, because this will be the only way for you to be promoted and reused.

You can do more of this work, but you must distinguish responsibilities and don't take the blame for others, for example.

Mixing: If you want to mix well, you must learn to give gifts. This is a very important knowledge, for example.

Especially the administrative staff and the leaders in charge of the unit, they can make you suffer a loss by doing a little trick on you, for example.

Subtext: You must understand the subtext of the unit leader, especially the words of the top leader. You must not just listen to the surface, but analyze and listen. Sometimes you should even listen in reverse. Don't be stupid and don't understand, otherwise you may have to work in an ordinary position for a lifetime, for example.

Self-improvement: If you are not strong, it is useless to have good relationships. If you can't bring benefits to others, it is useless to have good relationships and a wide network of contacts. No one will care about you when you encounter problems, for example.

And so on and so forth.

Yun Dad is teaching Han Li sincerely here, and Han Li is also trying to remember it in his mind. Even if he will not be involved in government agencies in the future, it is good to have more human relations and worldly affairs. Moreover, even if he wants to know this level of things, there is no place to learn.

Even if Yun Dad uses himself as an example and tells the story from shallow to deep, many things cannot be fully understood by just listening. At most, it can help him avoid some obvious detours. If you want to fully understand, you can only be beaten and tempered for a long time in the system.

Of course, people who have been nurtured in such an atmosphere since childhood will understand it faster. After all, how can people who have worked hard for many generations be easily surpassed by ordinary people?

Yun's father told Han Li here. After hearing these contents, Yun's mother smiled. After finishing the housework, she brought two bowls of water and quietly took her daughters back to the house without saying a word.

However, Yun's father's later words implied that he was not optimistic about the profession of doctor. His general meaning was that Han Li could use this as a springboard, but he should not take this as his main job in the future, because the profession of doctor is very difficult, very easy to fall, offend people, and the room for advancement is extremely limited.

This time, the conversation between the father-in-law and the son-in-law lasted for more than two hours, and Yun's father was obviously tired before it came to an end.

Then Han Li gave Yun's father and mother acupuncture and massage again, and everyone went to bed at night.

Because the house is very damp now, even if the fire pit and stove inside have been lit and started to dry, they obviously cannot live in it tonight.

Dad Yun will live on the haystack in the barn from now on, and Han Li still did not choose to sleep with him.

However, Han Li did not choose to suffer in the sidecar tonight, but slept on the millstone covered with animal skin.

It was late at night, and the whole team of several rooms had fallen into silence.

When almost everyone had fallen asleep, Han Li suddenly opened his eyes, listened carefully and saw that Dad Yun and the others were all asleep, and he lifted the animal skin and jumped off the millstone.

He slowly shook his hands and feet, gently stretched his muscles and bones, and climbed over the wall.

Han Li did not go to the county this time. He used his mental power to quickly find Li Si's home in the village.

The county hospital could not diagnose anything about Li Si's situation, and finally said that he had a stroke caused by excessive drinking, so

he was asked to return from the county hospital that afternoon, but Han Li never took him seriously.

But when he heard Dad Yun say that today, Han Li suddenly felt that his treatment of Li Si was still too light.

Although Li Si can only be paralyzed on the kang for the rest of his life, a scum like him will not stay still even if he can't move.

Now in the entire team of several rooms, only Li Si is most familiar with the situation of Yun's father and mother.

If this guy instructs others to do bad things in the barn, then the life of Yun's father and mother will be difficult.

Even if the captain named Hao Dabao promised Han Li that he would protect them, he didn't want to pin all his hopes on him.

So for a scum like Li Si, the best choice is to prevent him from even having the idea of ​​harming others in the future.

Han Li came and left quickly this time, but when he went back, he took out a few bags of charcoal from the decomposition space. He didn't think of these charcoals yesterday, and now he took them out to keep Yun's father and mother warm in the coming winter.

The next day, after everyone fed the livestock, the two sisters took the piece of animal skin that they didn't use because they were young and sewed knee and waist pads for their parents.

After Yun's father and mother added firewood to the fire pit and stove in the house, they began to appreciate the shelter that Han Li and them had built.

Han Li was helping Yun's father and mother with the herbs in the yard while chopping the slightly thicker tree trunks into small pieces for future use in the basement.

The most important thing was to hide all the firewood in the basement to prevent someone from moving it away.

But this firewood was far from enough for Yun's father and mother to use throughout the winter, so Han Li planned to wait and chop some more firewood back. After chopping them all, he would dig a cellar in a corner of the yard to store them for them to use slowly. They only needed to hold on until the end of next spring when the existence of these firewoods would become dispensable, and it would not matter even if they all rotted away.

At this time, there was a burst of hurried footsteps outside, followed by the voice of Captain Hao.

"Brother Han, open the door. I'll come and get the car to take someone to the county hospital."

Hearing his voice, Yun's father and mother hurried out of the basement and walked into the yard to pretend to cut grass.

"Captain Hao, what's wrong with your village? Aren't the members too prone to illness?"

"Oh, don't mention it. This time it's the former breeder Li Si again. His son just ran to my place to borrow a car and said that his father got worse this morning. Not only can he not speak now, but he can only move one hand. This hand basically bids farewell to chopsticks from now on. When eating, he can only use a spoon to scoop food."

"How much alcohol did Li Si drink? He drank himself into this state."

"When I asked him yesterday, he said he drank less than a bottle. Now it seems that he lied, otherwise it wouldn't have become more serious. But Li Si has no chance to lie now, and he can't read. In the future, he will be worse than those born dumb."

Han Li chatted with Captain Hao while helping him harness the carriage. Hao Dabao asked, smelling the smell of medicine in the yard.

"Brother Han is really amazing. What are these medicines used for?"

"I can't say they are amazing, otherwise I wouldn't have failed to see Li Si's condition that day. These herbs are prescribed based on the physical conditions of Yun Shixian and Fang Yuemei. After all, they are also the future relatives of Mr. Liu. If their physical condition is too poor, it will not look good at the wedding ceremony."

"Yes, yes, yes, we really can't let Mr. Liu lose face because of this little thing. In the future, I will assign tasks to Comrades Yun Shixian and Fang Yuemei according to the situation."

"Thank you so much, Captain Hao. I will arrange the whole journey when we go to Sijiu City in the future."

"Hahaha, I won't be polite then."

The two of them talked and laughed as they harnessed the carriage. When Han Li sent the captain out, the other party remembered something and asked another question.

"Brother Han, I'm asking something I shouldn't ask. When do you three plan to return to Sijiu City?"

"Well, Captain Hao, you know that Old Liu has just returned to the center recently, and many of his relatives and friends are scattered down there. This time, I'm basically responsible for the situation around Sijiu City, so after leaving you, I have to go to Pinggu. I wonder if the captain has anything to do?"

"Haha. No, no, it's just that Li Si is seriously ill this time and needs a car. It's okay for me to go there once or twice in person. If it happens often, I'm afraid the members will say strange things."

"I didn't expect to cause such trouble to the captain. I'm so embarrassed. I'll leave after helping Comrades Yun Shixian and Fang Yuemei to adjust their bodies in the next two days. Before I leave, I will definitely go to thank the captain in person."

"Brother Han, you worry too much. I have only welcomed you from the beginning to the end. I have no intention of driving you away. I just want to have a plan in mind to deal with the members in the team."

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