Chapter 648 Perfect World (27)

"Bai Tang, don't you want to take responsibility if you don't look good?"

Yan Fu knew that his face changed quickly.

But what's the point?

He just wanted to catch her.

Bai Tang: "..."

Who knew he could change his face in just one night?

"When did I say that? Don't think about it."

"I know, I am despicable, I am selfish, I am destined to be a devil..."

Bai Tang immediately interrupted him: "Yan Fu, do you really think so?"

Yan Fu glanced away and said nothing.

Does he really think so?

Yan Fu himself couldn't give a definite answer.

He always wanted to tell Bai Tang what others said about him, hoping that she could give him an accurate answer.

Bai Tang: "Yan Fu, raise your head and look at me. Don't avoid it. Look into my eyes."

Yan Fu raised his head again after hearing this.

What he saw in her eyes was that he was embarrassed, had low self-esteem, and was abnormal.

"Yan Fu, people get angry when others say derogatory things about you. But when you say demeaning things to people other than you, you are seeking their opinions."

"You are doubting in your heart, you don't know, you are unwilling, you think you are not such a person, but they all say you are such a person. You hope that I can tell you that you are not despicable, low-level, and not a born bad person. "

What Yan Fu is walking now is the same path she once walked.

It is better to have someone to enlighten you than no one to enlighten you.

It’s really difficult to do it all on your own.

"Am I then?"

Yan Fu asked eagerly.

If Bai Tang thinks he is, he thinks he will be finished.

The person he could not help but turn to in his heart denied him, and then the last bit of hope was gone.

Bai Tang held his face with both hands and said seriously: "Yan Fu, it doesn't really mean much whether I say these are true or not. What's important is that they must be your own inner thoughts. Other people's evaluations are only for reference. If I I say a thousand good things about you, but you don’t feel it, you don’t believe it, and you just think I’m teasing you.”

"If others explain it to you 10,000 times or tell you 100 million times, it's not as good as doing it and thinking about it from beginning to end. What I tell you, you just know it, but you don't really understand it. A paragraph You need to walk the psychological journey on your own, I can guide you, but I can't push you."

"So, whether you are despicable or not, or a devil or not, you have to give yourself an accurate and firm answer. Otherwise, you still haven't really overcome this hurdle. It will definitely come back under a certain opportunity. Become a stumbling block for you. Maybe you will gain confidence because I said you are not, and feel that you have grasped a life-saving straw. But what if I let go? Have you fallen into the previous cycle again, and it is becoming more and more difficult to get out? Increasing despair and pain.”

I also came through this, the cycle repeats.

Bai Tang has now established a relationship with him, and hopes that he can be strong mentally.

Treat her as a life-saving straw, regard everything she says as correct, and even regard it as a classic. This is not good. Bai Tang doesn't want him to become her vassal.

Yan Fu frowned and hesitated: "I... think about it myself?"

"Yes, before you think about this, first of all, you have to know what is the standard for judging despicableness in everyone's eyes, and what is used to judge it. Then compare it with yourself, and think about those who use such words to describe What is your purpose? Is it to state the facts, to suppress, or to be evil? Yan Fu, you are not a child anymore, you must have your own standards of judgment and reference goals."

"People must think, they must not let things happen and accept them irreversibly."

Bai Tang opened a stone and caught an insect.