Chapter 634 Why Bother to Look Far Away?
"You really want me to tell?"
"Of course."
"Then I told you, don't be angry." Ning Youguang said to Xie Yizun, "If you are angry, we won't be able to have a good chat."
"Don't be angry." Xie Yizun seriously promised, "Sister, just say what you have, I'm so annoyed by this now."
"First of all, don't take yourself too seriously. When acting, you think about how this character should be, how you should match other characters, and don't have "I". For example, when you cry, think about me Would it be ugly to cry like this? When I laughed, I wondered if I would be stupid like this. Then you are not living on the character, but living on yourself. When you go back, you can experience it well. When you experience the feeling of forgetting yourself and entering such a role state, you will find that the uncomfortable feeling in yourself is much less." Ning Youguang said, "In fact, when you no longer pay attention to yourself, you will ignore it. People around you are watching you, and you don’t think that the film will be broadcast in the future, and others will talk about you, you don’t feel any of these, the only thing you care about is what you need to do at the moment.”
"Secondly, don't keep thinking about how to make me look more handsome, don't be narcissistic, don't deliberately show your handsomeness, do what you should do, take your attention away from yourself, and you won't do anything. There was a state of overexertion.”
"But my fans just like that I'm good-looking."
Xie Yizun has understood the fact that he is good-looking when he was growing up.
Because since he was born, his grandma has been a fool about his appearance.
When he was a little older and went to school, the teachers in the school, as well as relatives, friends and classmates at home, would always have an explicit or implied attitude towards him.
How could he not know that he was good-looking?
Moreover, he aspired to be a star since he was a child, and he also felt that he could become a star because he knew that he was really good-looking.
In front of his family, Xie Yizun always said what he said, and put everything on his face, and Ning Youguang could understand what was going on in his heart at a glance.
"It's okay to be handsome and self-aware, but don't think about showing off, because once you start showing off, you will look very narcissistic, and all your self-showing will be magnified in front of the screen through your expressions, and the audience will feel Come out." would be disgusting.
"I'm not narcissistic." Xie Yizun instinctively wanted to refute.
After thinking about it, I felt that I still had to explain, "I hope to perform better in front of the camera because fans like it."
"I didn't say you are narcissistic, I just said that once you care about whether you are handsome or not in the camera, others will think you are narcissistic when they look at you." Ning Youguang said, "Of course fans like idols in the show You are good-looking, but if an idol is not only good-looking but also sincere, what do you think your fans will do?"
"I would like it more." Xie Yizun replied after a slight silence, "Our teacher also said that no one would hate a sincere person, and no one would dislike a person who works hard and loves to learn."
"Whatever you show, the public will give you feedback." Ning Youguang nodded, "Nowadays people evolve too fast, you know how to introspect, know how to grasp the core and improve when you encounter problems, so no matter how well you perform Still not good, at least no one will hate a person who is sincere about his work."
Xie Yizun lowered his eyes and said slowly, "Actually, I realize now that my background can only determine whether I can be quickly accepted by some people at the beginning, but the real long-term survival depends on whether I have done a good job. Whether the ability to do that job can be recognized by others can only be won by myself."
Therefore, after taking over the male lead, he realized that he felt a little bit being roasted on the fire.
He was not as happy as he imagined, but after joining the group, he felt more and more anxious, restless, and fearful.
In fact, he also faintly knew why.
He knew that he did not have a solid background to support him.
Those people around him every day, although they would not say anything in person, turned their backs and talked about him countless times.
He returned to Beijing after finishing his phased work this time, because when he took the script to ask a senior in the crew for advice, he heard him say to others in the dressing room, "If Xie Yizun wasn't his mother, who would take care of me?" He's a brat, his wings haven't grown hard yet, he just wants to stand on the heads of us and shit, every day he tells me to do this and tell me to do that, what should I do?"
When he was standing outside the door and heard this, his hands were shaking.
He thought that he respected the other person very much, and he was serious about taking the role well, so he asked him for advice, and at the beginning, he himself patted him on the shoulder and said to him, "If you need anything, don't be polite to me. "
But it turns out...
Thinking of this, Xie Yizun's face darkened.
"Did you think of something unhappy?" Ning Youguang asked after noticing the change in Xie Yizun's face.
Xie Yizun hesitated for a while, and told Ning Youguang what happened in the crew.
After hearing this, Ning Youguang touched the head of his angry and injured younger brother and said, "You and him are strangers, how could you support you with all your strength in a short period of time? How can there be anything that you get along with each other when you come up?" What about a good colleague relationship? There is no such thing at all, all relationships must be cultivated, whether it is work or family, without a firm will, it cannot be maintained.”
"It's too difficult." Xie Yizun covered his face, "I feel like I can't wait that long."
"The biggest cost to improve yourself is strategic cost and time cost. You have to distinguish what is real saving and what is real waste. If it is something you really want to do, you must be patient." Ning Youguang said.
"Relationships are beneficial, as long as you know how to use them." Shi Mochizuki interrupted slowly while listening patiently.
The siblings looked at him together.
"Brother-in-law, what do you mean?"
"What I mean is that if you ask other people, it's better to ask Aunt Xia." Shi Mochiyue said unhurriedly, "Why bother to look far away."
Xie Yizun tilted his head, "She's not in our film crew, how does she know how to perform our play?"
Ning Youguang looked at Xie Yizun and blinked, but didn't speak.
Xie Yizun sighed, "Well, I just hope that I can learn well."
Ning Youguang and Shi Wangyue looked at each other.
In fact, they could understand why Xie Yizun would do this.
but--
"One by one, then you have to think clearly about what is most important to you right now." 1314