Chapter 520 Because of Me and Growth, I Will Rest Until Death

It was a hard and happy time.

"You have helped many people." The other party said slowly after listening carefully.

"Thanks to everyone's trust." Ning Youguang smiled.

Today, her studio has developed from only her as a therapist to a professional psychological healing institution with more than 40 therapists and psychological mentors.

The more staff the agency has, the more people it helps.

The other party asked again, "What does it feel like to be reborn?"

Ning Youguang's clear and gentle eyes fell on his face, "I feel that the exhausted part of my life has a subtle vitality."

What a feeling that is, people who have never felt it do not understand.

However, it did not prevent him from continuing to explore.

"Does the vitality have a specific direction?"

"There is only one kind of life force, and when it is seen, it will become a good life force, such as enthusiasm, creativity, and love. When it is not seen, it will turn into a black life force, which will become hatred, attack, anger and destruction." Ning Youguang Explain patiently, 'Black life force will inevitably produce destruction and attacks, some are internal attacks, some are external attacks, people who attack internally will continue to attack themselves, and people who attack externally will have serious emotional problems , They show two extreme emotional states on a daily basis. Most of the time they appear to be very peaceful and talkative, but at a certain point they become a powder keg that 'explodes at one point'. "

Therefore, people who lose control of their emotions usually have low self-esteem and arrogance.

When they have emotions but cannot be relieved, and their hearts cannot digest themselves, they will lose control in an instant and become destructive regardless of the cost.

"So the vitality you mentioned refers to good vitality." The other party slowly lowered his eyes.

It was only then that Ning Youguang realized that the big guy's eyelashes were long and curled up.

He has very beautiful eyes.

"yes."

"Do you...do you think it's bad for people who can't control their emotions?" The other party hesitated for a while and asked again.

"Whether emotions are positive or negative, there is no distinction between good and bad. Its value depends purely on how the person who produces the emotion uses it." Ning Youguang replied, "And emotions are emotions, and people are people. , to be separated, we cannot think that a person is not good just because he has negative emotions, this is unreasonable."

"Are you still emotional?"

"Of course there is." Ning Youguang chuckled, "I'm not a saint, how could I have no emotions? However, I have learned how to control my emotions, and my consciousness and brain will no longer be controlled by emotions."

"That's why you can be so peaceful every time?"

"How should I put it?" Ning Youguang chuckled, "I've always been quite peaceful."

Appearance yes.

But I didn't want to, the other party revealed the essence in a second.

"I'm talking about the heart."

"Well, you're right. I used to be really troubled by emotions. I often had uncontrollable self-doubt and regret. I regretted that I did wrong multiple-choice questions, said wrong things to people, went to the wrong place for school, and doubted myself. Did it make others unhappy again, did it not do well enough, or caused troubles to the people around it, etc., always feel dissatisfied with oneself, and the mood is very negative." Ning Youguang laughed dumbly, " Therefore, I am introverted, not good at socializing, have few friends, and although I have made some progress in my studies, I have no way to use the knowledge I have learned to resist the negative emotions in my heart. As a person, I have not grown up , So, I like to spend time alone in the library, as Maugham said, 'Reading is a refuge that you can carry with you'."

"But that doesn't solve your problem."

Is the brain of a genius all so easy to use?

Ning Youguang has a new understanding of the other party's sensitivity, "Yes, although books have provided me with many ways to deal with and solve problems, they can't solve my psychological problems from the source. .”

"Then how did you transform?"

"Learn." Ning Youguang said, "Learn how to heal yourself and grow yourself from an excellent mentor. After learning, transformation will become a natural thing."

This is an excellent opportunity to open the door of the other party's heart. Ning Youguang is keeping her five senses highly sensitive, but she cannot let the other party see that she is testing him.

Therefore, we can only use self-dissection to let the other party see another possibility of black lives.

After thinking about it, she said, "Actually, at the beginning, I didn't realize that reading books alone couldn't solve my problems, and I was secretly proud of myself for a while, thinking that all the pain was 'passed', but at that time I didn't I know, it’s because I was a student at the time, my interpersonal relationship was simple, and I was far away from my family. I didn’t have many opportunities to touch my own wounds, but every time I came back from vacation and got in touch with people around me, I found that what I thought before The so-called "past" is self-deception, those unhealed wounds are still hidden in my consciousness, affecting my whole life by affecting my perception of the present and expectations of the future. This After that, I realized that the only way to really get out of the predicament is, as a mentor I know said, I can only face my fragility and my dark side openly, find my inner strength from the pain, and get out of the predicament. Just grow up in it."

"Why keep revisiting old scars?"

Anxiety and anger were hidden in the other party's slightly cold voice.

Ning Youguang replied firmly and calmly.

"Because I grow up with you until death."

The man in the wheelchair fell silent again.

After a while, he moved his fingers slowly, "Can I have a cigarette?"

"Of course." Ning Youguang nodded, and then she turned to look around, and finally fixed her eyes on the tightly drawn curtains, "But, can I open the window if I want?"

The other party hesitated and nodded.

Ning Youguang got up and went to the window.

But she didn't want to, just as she was about to reach out to pull the curtains open, she found that the thick black curtains in front of her were slowly moving to the sides.

[Whole house smart home, you said earlier? ! ]

Ning Youguang was speechless for a moment, but he was quickly healed by the beautiful sunset and sunset outside the window.

As the thick curtains in front of me were opened, the warm yellow sky outside slowly spread into the room.

The brilliance is mesmerizing.

"Today's sunset is so beautiful." She stood in front of the window, looking at the sky outside the window intoxicated.

The current season is the beginning of autumn.

But after she came to Beijing, she found that the weather here is good, and there is no sign of summer passing by.

She was shrouded in halo and illuminated, making her dazzled. 1314

The explanation of vitality comes from psychologist Wu Zhihong